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Online DBT Group

Dialetical Behavioral Therapy

What is DBT?
​Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
is an effective treatment for people who struggle to manage their emotions, stress, relationships and impulsive behaviors. DBT combines cognitive-behavioral-therapy and mindfulness practice. It is based on a bio-social theory whi
ch believes problems develop from the interaction of biological/physiological makeup and environmental factors, which together, create difficulty managing emotions. DBT therapists take a compassionate view, accepting you for who you are while helping you change and work toward your goals.
   OPTION 1:    Individual DBT Coaching -Currently Telehealth ONLY
                                          
Individual DBT sessions focus on applying the DBT skills to your unique life circumstances. In these sessions we will identify appropriate “targets” – behaviors, thoughts and feelings that you would like to increase or decrease – and work with you to achieve meaningful change. DBT treatment is heavily influenced by Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) but has an added emphasis on Validation, i.e., accepting uncomfortable thoughts, feelings, and behaviors rather than fighting against them. The therapist’s role during these sessions is to help you find a balance between acceptance and change. Some clients appreciate this modification as a pre-curser  to group therapy and other clients just feel more comfortable with a one-on-one approach.
​We will take our time to learn and practice:
  • Mindfulness practices
  • Emotional Regulation
  • Interpersonal Effectiveness
  • Distress Tolerance

OPTION 2:     Group DBT- TELEHEALTH GROUP          
​Format
* Open group for adults age 18+ with a revolving schedule.
* Lecture and interactive format involving individual and group activities.
* Handouts & materials provided
* Collaboration with outside therapist provided
Fee
​$50.00 per group session (Insurance is accepted- Blue Cross Blue Shield PPO, Insurance Checks, Cash/Check and payment plan options available)
​Schedule
​Session A:
​Covers Skill Modules 1&2 (6 weeks):   
​Session B:
Covers Skill Modules 3&4 (6 weeks): 

We ask that all members commit to a full session and both Session A & B for optimal results.
New members may be added at session breaks.

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​In this video, DBT Developer and Behavioral Tech founder Dr. Marsha Linehan describes the amazing changes she's seen in people who have received DBT and gotten out of hell.

The Four Skill Modules

Mindfulness  (Module 1)


Mindfulness skills in DBT come from the eastern spiritual traditions. These skills help members focus on the present and attend to what is happening in the here and now in a calm way. It helps people slow down and focus on doing what is needed to care for oneself in the moment. Members learn the value of wise mind instead of succumbing to intense emotions and acting in a destructive way.
Mindfulness Workbook Link

Interpersonal Effectiveness (Module 2)

Interpersonal effectiveness skills involve helping people understand what their needs are in their relationships and helps develop effective ways of dealing with others in order to get one’s wants or needs met in a healthy way. This involves respecting the self and others, listening and communicating effectively, dealing with difficult people, repairing relationships and being able to say no.
Interpersonal Effectiveness Link

Distress Tolerance (Module 3)

Distress tolerance helps people get through difficult times when emotions are running high. It teaches people to soothe themselves in healthy ways when they are feeling upset rather than becoming overwhelmed by emotions or hiding from them. This allows individuals to make wise decisions about whether and how to take action, rather than falling into the intense, desperate and often-destructive emotional reactions. Crisis survival skills are also taught so that one does not engage in problematic behaviors and ultimately make the situation worse. Reality Acceptance Skills focus on helping people fully accept reality and provide a guideline for responding to painful aspects of life.
Distress Tolerance Link

Emotional Regulation (Module 4)

The DBT emotion regulation skills help people understand their emotions. It teaches people to decrease the intensity of their feelings and helps them ride out strong emotions without acting on them. It provides education about the function of emotions and how to not be swamped by them.
Emotional Regulation Link
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Self-Harm- What is it?
Working with hundreds of clients that have engaged in self-injurious behavior I often get asked this question. Please understand this response is no way able to cover the diversity of the answers that I have received from clients. However, I hope it starts you down a path of seeking understanding and exhibiting compassion as we help teach our friends, family and even self how to cope in healthier ways. 
Self injury, also called self-harm, self-mutilation, or simply cutting, is defined as any intentional injury to one's own body. Usually, self-injury leaves marks or causes tissue damage. Self-injury can involve any of the following behaviors:
  • Cutting
  • Burning (or "branding" with hot objects)
  • Excessive body piercing or tattooing
  • Picking at skin or re-opening wounds
  • Hair-pulling (trichotillomania)
  • Head-banging
  • Hitting (with hammer or other object)
  • Bone-breaking
  • I personally would like to add - Intense Negative Self-Talk- 
Most who engage in self-injury act alone rather than in groups. They also attempt to hide their behavior. While cutting can look like attempted suicide, it's often not; most people who mutilate themselves do it as a way to regulate mood. People who hurt themselves in this way may be motivated by a need to distract themselves from inner turmoil or to quickly release anxiety that builds due to an inability to express intense emotions. This book seeks to answer this question in more depth: Cutting by Steven Levenkron (Link: Cutting)

Here are some additional resources:

How to spot the signs 
Why Cutting?
A Parents Guide to Understanding 


Resources

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Here is a link to the workbook we will use in group:
DBT WORKBOOK

Bipolar Workbook

Do you think you might have BPD? 
Here is an assessment to start the conversation together:
Assessment BPD
Link to book:  Family Support Guide BPD
The virtual Therapy Room has resources for those interested in learning more about DBT. 
DBT Therapy Room 
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Helping Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder

Have a loved one who’s been diagnosed with BPD? While you can’t force them to seek treatment, you can take steps to improve communication, set healthy boundaries, and stabilize your relationship.​ People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) tend to have major difficulties with relationships, especially with those closest to them.
Their wild mood swings, angry outbursts, chronic abandonment fears, and impulsive and irrational behaviors can leave loved ones feeling helpless, abused, and off balance. Partners and family members of people with BPD often describe the relationship as an emotional roller coaster with no end in sight. You may feel like you’re at the mercy of your loved one’s BPD symptoms—trapped unless you leave the relationship or the person takes steps get treatment. But you have more power than you think.

You can change the relationship by managing your own reactions, establishing firm limits, and improving communication between you and your loved one. There’s no magic cure but with the right treatment and support, many people with BPD can and do get better and their relationships can become more stable and rewarding. In fact, patients with the most support and stability at home tend to show improvements sooner than those whose relationships are more chaotic and insecure. Whether it’s your partner, parent, child, sibling, friend, or other loved one with BPD, you can improve both the relationship and your own quality of life, even if the person with BPD isn’t ready to acknowledge the problem or seek treatment.

Learning all you can. If your loved one has borderline personality disorder, it’s important to recognize that he or she is suffering. The destructive and hurtful behaviors are a reaction to deep emotional pain. In other words, they’re not about you. When your loved one does or says something hurtful towards you, understand that the behavior is motivated by the desire to stop the pain they are experiencing; it’s rarely deliberate.
Learning about BPD won’t automatically solve your relationship problems, but it will help you understand what you’re dealing with and handle difficulties in more constructive ways.

Recognizing the signs and symptoms of BPD Recognizing the signs and symptoms of borderline personality disorder is not always easy. BPD is rarely diagnosed on its own, but often in conjunction with co-occurring disorders such as depression, bipolar disorder, anxiety, an eating disorder, or substance abuse. Your family member or loved one with BPD may be extremely sensitive, so small things can often trigger intense reactions. Once upset, borderline people are often unable to think straight or calm themselves in a healthy way. They may say hurtful things or act out in dangerous or inappropriate ways. This emotional volatility can cause turmoil in their relationships and stress for family members, partners, and friends.

Many people in a close relationship with someone who suffers from BPD often know that there’s something wrong with their loved one, but have no idea what it is or if there is even a name for it. Learning a diagnosis of borderline personality disorder can come as a source of both relief and hope.

Does your loved one have borderline personality disorder?
In your relationship:
  1. Do you feel like you have to tiptoe around your loved one, watching every little thing you say or do for fear of setting them off? Do you often hide what you think or feel in order to avoid fights and hurt feelings?
  2. Does your loved one shift almost instantaneously between emotional extremes (e.g. calm one moment, raging the next, then suddenly despondent?) Are these rapid mood swings unpredictable and seemingly irrational?
  3. Does your loved one tend to view you as all good or bad, with no middle ground? For example, either you’re “perfect,” and the only one they can count on, or you’re “selfish” and “unfeeling” and never truly loved them.
  4. Do you feel like you can’t win: that anything you say or do will be twisted and used against you? Does it feel as if your loved one’s expectations are constantly changing, so you’re never sure how to keep the peace?
  5. Is everything always your fault? Do you feel constantly criticized and blamed for things that don’t even make sense? Does the person accuse you of doing and saying things you never did? Do you feel misunderstood whenever you try to explain or reassure your partner?
  6. Do you feel manipulated by fear, guilt, or outrageous behavior? Does your loved one make threats, fly into violent rages, make dramatic declarations, or do dangerous things when they think you’re unhappy or may leave?
If you answer “yes” to most of these questions, your partner or family member might have borderline personality disorder.
To help someone with BPD, first take care of yourself.
When a family member or partner has borderline personality disorder, it’s all too easy to get caught up in heroic efforts to please and appease him or her. You may find yourself putting most of your energy into the person with BPD at the expense of your own emotional needs. But this is a recipe for resentment, depression, burnout, and even physical illness. You can’t help someone else or enjoy sustainable, satisfying relationships when you’re run down and overwhelmed by stress. As in the event of an in-flight emergency, you must “put on your own oxygen mask first.”

Avoid the temptation to isolate. Make it a priority to stay in touch with family and friends who make you feel good. You need the support of people who will listen to you, make you feel cared for, and offer reality checks when needed.

You’re allowed (and encouraged) to have a life! Give yourself permission to have a life outside of your relationship with the person with BPD. It’s not selfish to carve out time for yourself to relax and have fun. In fact, when you return to your BPD relationship, you’ll both benefit from your improved perspective.

Join a support group for BPD family members. Meeting with others who understand what you’re going through can go a long way. If you can’t find an in-person support group in your area, you may want to consider joining an online BPD community.

Don’t neglect your physical health. Eating healthfully, exercising, and getting quality sleep can easily fall by the wayside when you’re caught up in relationship drama. Try to avoid this pitfall. When you’re healthy and well rested, you’re better able to handle stress and control your own emotions and behaviors.

Learn to manage stress. Getting anxious or upset in response to problem behavior will only increase your loved one’s anger or agitation. By practicing with sensory input, you can learn to relieve stress as it’s happening and stay calm and relaxed when the pressure builds.
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Remember the 3 C’s rule:
Many friends or family members often feel guilty and blame themselves for the destructive behavior of the borderline person. You may question what you did to make the person so angry, think you somehow deserve the abuse, or feel responsible for any failure or relapse in treatment. But it’s important to remember that you’re not responsible for another person. The person with BPD is responsible for their own actions and behaviors.
The 3 C’s are:
  1. I didn’t cause it.
  2. I can’t cure it.
  3. I can’t control it.

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  • About Dana Hall
  • TeleHealth
  • Service Fees
    • Location
  • Contact
  • DBT Options
  • What to expect from therapy
  • Bullying Prevention
  • Gender Specialist
  • Marriage & Couples Counseling
  • Addiction
  • Healing Trauma
  • On The Couch
  • Beyond Words
  • CBT
  • PostPartum Services
  • EMDR
  • Virtual Wellness: Lotus Learning Studio
  • Living Well With Chronic Illness
  • Wellness Warriors